Table 2: Overall Theme, Themes and Sub-Themes

Remembering the Chaos… But Life went on and the Wound Healed
Parental struggle and tiredness…
Isolation…
The colic scream was unbearable…
turned to relief with only a few residual symptoms
ended once social life resumed
and still evokes negative feelings
Relationships were strained…
Distance and closeness to the suffering baby…
Feelings of inadequacy…
but healed
but closeness to the four year old child
turned into feelings of confidence in the parental role
Not getting the support needed…
Not being understood…
Almost nothing helped…
resulted in low confidence in Child Health services and a call for changes
was still considered to have been the worst part
and the need for treatment remains